You may have heard about me perhaps from my daughter. Not sure what version of story she tells you. I hope its a good one.

Its true sometimes I am a bit whimsical , unpredictable, moody perhaps. But definitely I am not angry or mean as it may seem.

These few days I have been just a little worried about her. She thinks she needs space to explore the world , her relationships , her identity and companionship of friends. There is nothing wrong with that its natural part of growing up.

So what do I say to you in few words which are not mean or racist in any way but genuine and heartfelt .

Infatuation could be a slippery slope especially for teenagers who are so young , unsure, immature and vulnerable. It takes a ton of effort to just be a good friend let alone a special friend. Its funny how internet has changed the world. Adults are struggling too, to understand that the best sign of a healthy relationship is no sign of it on facebook or Instagram or any other social media platform.

“Mutual understanding is harder now because conversations become texting, arguments become phone calls, and feelings become status updates.” So here are few words in the form of a poem. Sometimes its good to allow time , space and emptiness to lead you to find the brightest star just like the day waiting for the night.

Can you be my redemption?*

Its not her its about you I care
She is balanced and immature
Ready to like anyone who shows affection
Feelings are raw, unstable.
Can there be pure friendship with no labels?

Its not her its about you I care
She is moody and alluring
Ready to text , browse, express being social
Who is close yet so far
Can you fathom in a world of media ajar?

Its not her its about you I care
She is an angry goddess and a saint
Ready to betray, be loyal
Looks , feelings, emotions change
Can you predict what is to come?

Its not her its about you I care
She is defiant and brittle
Ready to collapse, stand up
Pulled between maturity and adolescence
Can you tame the storm on the horizon?

Its not her its about you I care
She is loyal and a rebel
Ready to overturn any strings
Binding her with parental affiliation
Can you be my redemption?